What Is Family Mediation?

Family mediation is a voluntary process where two people work with a neutral third party (a mediator) to resolve issues related to separation, divorce, or family conflict.

If you and the other person are unable to agree on important matters, mediation can help you reach an agreement outside of court. Many families choose mediation because it can be faster, more affordable, and more private than litigation.

What Can Be Mediated?

A family mediator can help you discuss and reach agreements on issues such as:

• Parenting time and parenting schedules

• Decision-making responsibilities for children

• Child support

• Spousal support

• Division of property and assets

• Communication and co-parenting arrangements

When Can I Start Mediation?

You can begin mediation at almost any stage of a family dispute:

• Before a court case is started

• During an ongoing court proceeding

• To avoid going to court altogether

• After separation when new issues arise

The earlier mediation begins, the more options families often have available to them.

What Does a Mediator Not Do?

A mediator does not:

• Take sides

• Make decisions for you

• Force you to reach an agreement

• Provide legal advice

• Act as a judge

The mediator's role is to facilitate productive discussions and help both parties explore possible solutions.

What Is Required for Mediation to Be Successful?

For mediation to be effective, participants should:

• Be willing to work toward a solution

• Feel safe participating in the process

• Be able to discuss their needs and concerns

• Be willing to listen to the other person's perspective

You do not need to agree on everything before starting mediation. In fact, mediation is designed to help people work through disagreements.

Do Mediators Give Legal Advice?

No. Mediators do not provide legal advice and do not replace lawyers.

It is strongly recommended that each participant obtain independent legal advice before, during, and after mediation to fully understand their rights and obligations.

If an agreement is reached, both parties should have the agreement reviewed by their own lawyer before signing to help ensure it is legally binding and in their best interests.

Lawyers may participate in the mediation process if desired, but they are not required to attend mediation sessions.